راهنمای والدین برای مقابله با زورگویی: از تمسخر در زمین بازی تا زورگویی سایبری، همه آنچه برای تضمین ایمنی و خوشحالی فرزندتان نیاز دارید (همه چیز®)

Content: Introduction -- Chapter 1: What Is Bullying? -- Definition of bullying -- History of bullying -- Facts and statistics -- Common markers of bullying -- Bullying versus normal conflict -- Why most people underestimate the impact of bullying -- Triad: the bully, the bullied, and the bystander -- Chapter 2: Types Of Bullying -- Verbal bullying -- Physical bullying -- Social, relational, and emotional bullying -- Extortion -- Direct bullying versus indirect bullying -- Cyber bullying -- Chapter 3: Types Of Bullies -- Confident -- Social -- Detached -- Hyperactive -- Bullied bully -- Bunch of bullies -- Gang of bullies -- Chapter 4: Bully -- Characteristics of a bully -- Why do some kids bully? -- Bully's role in the triad -- Stereotypical bully -- Common places bullying occurs -- Mean bully -- Meaner bully -- Meanest bully -- Chapter 5: Bullied -- Characteristics of a bullied child -- Bullied child's role in the triad -- Making of a victim: F-E-A-R -- Why me? -- Why victims don't tell -- Victim who also becomes a bully -- Chapter 6: Bystander -- Characteristics of a bystander -- Bystander's role in the triad -- Bystander roles -- Why bystanders don't tell -- Why bystanders aren't innocent -- How bystanders can stop bullying -- Chapter 7: Factors That Lead To Bullying Behavior -- Violence in the family -- Lack of a positive role model -- Violent television -- Violent video games -- Prior victim of a bully -- School failure -- Peer rejection -- School climate -- Chapter 8: Common Bullying Myths -- Myth 1: Bullying is a normal rite of passage -- Myth 2: Kids need to learn to defend themselves -- Myth 3: Children who are bullied always tell an adult -- Myth 4: People are born bullies -- Myth 5: Bullying doesn't happen at my child's school -- Myth 6: Bullies are loners with no social skills -- Myth 7: Bullying is a school problem -- Chapter 9: Warning Signs That Your Child Is Being Bullied -- Physical clues -- Psychological clues -- Educational clues -- Most likely targets -- How to respond (dos and don'ts) -- Steps to take if your child is being bullied -- Chapter 10: Consequences Of Bullying -- Physical -- Emotional -- Educational -- Short-term effects of being bullied -- Long-term effects of being bullied -- How parents can help. Chapter 11: Boy Bullies -- Boys-will-be-boys myth -- Danger of stereotypes -- Physical aggression -- Boys bullying girls -- Why boys bully other boys -- How parents can help -- Chapter 12: Girl Bullies -- Verbal bullying -- When girls get violent -- Group bullying -- Why girls bully other girls -- Good-girl persona -- How parents can help -- Ophelia project -- Chapter 13: How To Bully Proof Your Child -- Teaching social skills -- Ways to improve your child's self-esteem -- Teach your child how to be a friend -- Encourage and foster one good friendship -- Allow your child to join a group -- Enroll your child in a self-defense class -- Teach basic prevention skills -- Chapter 14: Social Skills And Assertiveness Training -- Why your child needs social-skills training -- Most essential social skills for kids -- Body language -- Voice quality -- Conversational skills -- Friendship skills -- Assertiveness skills -- Chapter 15: Parental Responsibility And Why Getting Involved Can Help Enact Change -- Fear of making the situation worse -- Embarrassed by a bullied child -- Kids beg parents not to tell -- Parents fear being seen as overprotective -- Parents want the child to stand up for herself -- Reasons why bullying should always be reported -- What works in bullying prevention? -- Chapter 16: Cyber Bullying -- Types of cyber bullying -- Why cyber bullying has become such a problem -- You can't see me, I can't see you -- Impact of cyber bullying -- Signs of cyber bullying -- Ways to protect your child -- Responding to cyber bullying -- Prevent your child from being a cyber bully -- Chapter 17: What If My Child Is A Bully? -- Signs that your child might be a bully -- Keep an open mind -- Intervention -- Teaching your child friendship and interpersonal skills -- Create more feel-good and do-good opportunities -- Engage in constructive, supervised activities and sports -- Limit exposure to violent media -- Chapter 18: Bullying Among Children With Special Needs -- Are schools protecting your children? -- Is your child vulnerable? -- New threat to kids: food-allergy taunts -- What is disability harassment? -- What you can do if it doesn't stop -- What to do if your child is being bullied -- Is legal action necessary? -- Chapter 19: When Bullying Becomes A Crime -- Do you know the law in your state? -- Directives in bullying laws -- Definition of bodily injury or threat of bodily injury -- Dealing with uncooperative school officials -- Filing a complaint -- Resolution -- Bullying prevention programs -- Chapter 20: Why Zero Tolerance Policies Don't Work -- What is a zero tolerance policy? -- Why zero tolerance actually decreases reports -- Student exclusion policies -- Bullies need intervention and positive role models -- Other misdirected policies -- What policies and programs should be implemented? -- Chapter 21: How Students, Parents, Schools, And Communities Can Work Together -- Identify the extent of the problem -- Create an awareness campaign -- Implement educational programs -- Start a peer-counseling program -- Specify classroom rules -- Practice cooperative learning activities -- Increase supervision in high-risk areas -- Whole-school policies -- Appendix A: Glossary -- Appendix B: Resources -- Appendix C: Existing anti-bullying education and prevention programs -- Appendix D: Anti-bully pledge for use in the classroom -- Index. Overview: Mocking. Namecalling. Physical aggression. These experiences are all forms of bullying that can wreak havoc on a child's self-esteem, safety, and general happiness. Both parents of bullied children and parents of bullies and are in a difficult situation: They want to protect their children and control their behavior without making the problem worse. Parents need a comprehensive, up-to-date guide to ensure that their children's education and quality of life are not compromised. This book helps parents learn to: Recognize the signs of bullying; Find out where bullying is taking place-at school, at a friend's house, or on the Internet; Understand the differences between bullying among boys and girls; Teach social skills and assertiveness techniques; Communicate with the parents of bullies; Get support from teachers, counselors, and other school administrators; Handle bullying situations involving children with special needs. Written by Deborah Carpenter, a social worker and assistant principal, this guide gives parents all the tools they need to recognize the problem, treat it properly, and prevent it from happening again. Read more... Abstract: Bullying can wreak havoc on a child's self-esteem, safety, and happiness. This guide includes information to help parents learn to: find out where bullying is taking place - from school to the Internet; understand the differences between bullying among boys and girls; and, handle bullying situations involving children with special needs. Read more... Mocking. Namecalling. Physical aggression. These experiences are all forms of bullying that can wreak havoc on a child{u2019}s self-esteem, safety, and general happiness. Both parents of bullied children and parents of bullies and are in a difficult situation: They want to protect their children and control their behavior without making the problem worse. Parents need a comprehensive, up-to-date guide to ensure that their children{u2019}s education and quality of life are not compromised. This book helps parents learn to: Recognize the signs of bullying Find out where bullying is taking place{u2014}at school, at a friend{u2019}s house, or on the Internet Understand the differences between bullying among boys and girls Teach social skills and assertiveness techniques Communicate with the parents of bullies Get support from teachers, counselors, and other school administrators Handle bullying situations involving children with special needsWritten by Deborah Carpenter, a social worker and assistant principal, this guide gives parents all the tools they need to recognize the problem, treat it properly, and prevent it from happening again Mocking. Namecalling. Physical aggression. These experiences are all forms of bullying that can wreak havoc on a childÆs self-esteem, safety, and general happiness. Both parents of bullied children and parents of bullies and are in a difficult situation: They want to protect their children and control their behavior without making the problem worse. Parents need a comprehensive, up-to-date guide to ensure that their childrenÆs education and quality of life are not compromised. This book helps parents learn to: Recognize the signs of bullying Find out where bullying is taking placeùat school, at a friendÆs house, or on the Internet Understand the differences between bullying among boys and girls Teach social skills and assertiveness techniques Communicate with the parents of bullies Get support from teachers, counselors, and other school administrators Handle bullying situations involving children with special needs Written by Deborah Carpenter , a social worker and assistant principal, this guide gives parents all the tools they need to recognize the problem, treat it properly, and prevent it from happening again. Mocking. Namecalling. Physical aggression. These experiences are all forms of bullying that can wreak havoc on a child's self-esteem, safety, and general happiness. Both parents of bullied children and parents of bullies and are in a difficult situation: They want to protect their children and control their behavior without making the problem worse. Parents need a comprehensive, up-to-date guide to ensure that their children's education and quality of life are not compromised. This book helps parents learn to: Recognize the signs of bullying; Find out where bullying is taking place—at school, at a friend's house, or on the Internet; Understand the differences between bullying among boys and girls; Teach social skills and assertiveness techniques; Communicate with the parents of bullies; Get support from teachers, counselors, and other school administrators; Handle bullying situations involving children with special needs. Written by Deborah Carpenter, a social worker and... ebook,book