Modern Brides and Modern Grooms: A Guide to Planning Straight, Gay, and Other Nontraditional Twenty-First-Century Weddings

Finalist for the National Indie Excellence Book Awards, 2015 — LGBT Nonfiction Marriage Finalist/First Runner Up for the Rainbow Book Award, 2015 — Best LGBT Debut How to make any wedding liberating, brave, and sexy. This post-DOMA book is for any couple—same or opposite sex—seeking a personalized wedding that dignifies the relationship and the individual self. No “new normal” here—this guide emboldens you to harness your unique, brazen, queer truth; to be creative; and to plan your wedding your way. Every fiancé faces the question: How do I become something new without losing myself? Using his own story—from how he and his husband connected via MTV’s The Real World to the real world of their marriage—author Mark O’Connell reflects on conflicts that arrive during wedding transitions, as well as various other transitions throughout your lives. As a psychotherapist, O’Connell offers ideas to bridge relational gaps with your partner, family, and friends. As a professional actor, he also offers insight into the ways your wedding is a theatrical production: how this can help you to conceptualize the event, consolidate your efforts, and increase creative collaboration as a couple. This will serve you not only on the day, but also for the rest of your time together.Whether we’re straight, gay, or other, weddings inspire us to carve out more fun, freedom, recognition, life-space, love-space, and connubial space than we’ve ever had before. How To Make Any Wedding Liberating, Brave, And Sexy. This Post-doma Book Is For Any Couple-same Or Opposite Sex-seeking A Personalized Wedding That Dignifies The Relationship And The Individual Self. No New Normal Here-this Guide Emboldens You To Harness Your Unique, Brazen, Queer Truth; To Be Creative; And To Plan Your Wedding Your Way. Every Fiancé Faces The Question: How Do I Become Something New Without Losing Myself? Using His Own Story-from How He And His Husband Connected Via Mtv's The Real World To The Real World Of Their Marriage-author Mark O'connell Reflects On Conflicts That Arrive During Wedding Transitions, As Well As Various Other Transitions Throughout Your Lives. As A Psychotherapist, O'connell Offers Ideas To Bridge Relational Gaps With Your Partner, Family, And Friends. As A Professional Actor, He Also Offers Insight Into The Ways Your Wedding Is A Theatrical Production: How This Can Help You To Conceptualize The Event, Consolidate Your Efforts, And Increase Creative Collaboration As A Couple. This Will Serve You Not Only On The Day, But Also For The Rest Of Your Time Together. Whether We're Straight, Gay, Or Other, Weddings Inspire Us To Carve Out More Fun, Freedom, Recognition, Life-space, Love-space, And Connubial Space Than We've Ever Had Before. -- First Comes Love... -- The Vision -- Setting The Stage -- Play With The Players, Party With The Parties -- Project Alter: Making Things Work, Letting Things Go, And The Wisdom To Know Which Is Best -- Showtime -- Dancing In The New World -- Then Comes... -- Appendix: Example Budget Chart. Mark O'connell ; Foreword By Liza Monroy. Includes Bibliographical References (pages 270) And Index. Finalist for the National Indie Excellence Book Awards, 2015 — LGBT Nonfiction and Marriage How to make any wedding liberating, brave, and sexy. This post-DOMA book is for any couple—same or opposite sex—seeking a personalized wedding that dignifies the relationship and the individual self. No “new normal” here—this guide emboldens you to harness your unique, brazen, queer truth; to be creative; and to plan your wedding your way. Every fiancé faces the question: How do I become something new without losing myself? Using his own story—from how he and his husband connected via MTV’s The Real World to the real world of their marriage—author Mark O’Connell reflects on conflicts that arrive during wedding transitions, as well as various other transitions throughout your lives. As a psychotherapist, O’Connell offers ideas to bridge relational gaps with your partner, family, and friends. As a professional actor, he also offers insight into the ways your wedding is a theatrical production: how this can help you to conceptualize the event, consolidate your efforts, and increase creative collaboration as a couple. This will serve you not only on the day, but also for the rest of your time together. Whether we’re straight, gay, or other, weddings inspire us to carve out more fun, freedom, recognition, life-space, love-space, and connubial space than we’ve ever had before. "How to make any wedding liberating, brave, and sexy. This post-DOMA book is for any couple-same or opposite sex-seeking a personalized wedding that dignifies the relationship and the individual self. No "new normal" here-this guide emboldens you to harness your unique, brazen, queer truth; to be creative; and to plan your wedding your way. Every fiancé faces the question: How do I become something new without losing myself? Using his own story-from how he and his husband connected via MTV's The Real World to the real world of their marriage-author Mark O'Connell reflects on conflicts that arrive during wedding transitions, as well as various other transitions throughout your lives. As a psychotherapist, O'Connell offers ideas to bridge relational gaps with your partner, family, and friends. As a professional actor, he also offers insight into the ways your wedding is a theatrical production: how this can help you to conceptualize the event, consolidate your efforts, and increase creative collaboration as a couple. This will serve you not only on the day, but also for the rest of your time together. Whether we're straight, gay, or other, weddings inspire us to carve out more fun, freedom, recognition, life-space, love-space, and connubial space than we've ever had before."-- Provided by publisher **How to make any wedding liberating, brave, and sexy.**This post-DOMA book is for any couple—same or opposite sex—seeking a personalized wedding that dignifies the relationship and the individual self. No “new normal” here—this guide emboldens you to harness your unique, brazen, queer truth; to be creative; and to plan your wedding __your__ way.Every fiancé faces the question: How do I become something new without losing myself? Using his own story—from how he and his husband connected via MTV’s __The Real World__ to the real world of their marriage—author Mark O’Connell reflects on conflicts that arrive during wedding transitions, as well as various other transitions throughout your lives.As a psychotherapist, O’Connell offers ideas to bridge relational gaps with your partner, family, and friends. As a professional actor, he also offers insight into the ways your wedding is a theatrical production: how this can help you to conceptualize the event, consolidate your efforts, and increase creative collaboration as a couple. This will serve you not only on the day, but also for the rest of your time together.Whether we’re straight, gay, or other, weddings inspire us to carve out more fun, freedom, recognition, life-space, love-space, and connubial space than we’ve ever had before. How to make any wedding liberating, brave, and sexy.This post-DOMA book is for any couple#x97;same or opposite sex#x97;seeking a personalized wedding that dignifies the relationship and the individual self. No #x93;new normal" here#x97;this guide emboldens you to harness your unique, brazen, queer truth; to be creative; and to plan your wedding your way.Every fiancé faces the question: How do I become something new without losing myself? Using his own story#x97;from how he and his husband connected via MTV's The Real World to the real world of their marriage#x97;author Mark O'Connell reflects on conflicts that arrive Cover; Title Page; Copyright; Dedication; Contents; Foreword; Introduction; Part 1: First Comes Love ... ; Part 2: The Vision; Part 3: Setting The Stage; Part 4: Play With the Players, Party With the Parties; Part 5: Project Alter: Making Things Work, Letting Things Go, And The Wisdom to Know Which is Best; Part 6: Showtime; Part 7: Dancing in the New World; Part 8: Then Comes ... ; Appendix: Example Budget Chart; Resources; Acknowledgments; Index; About the Author