Love and Toil : Motherhood in Outcast London, 1870-1918

The history of the British working class has until recently been written with a focus on the workplace or on such male organizations as clubs, unions or national political parties. This study of mothers in London before World War I stresses the distinctiveness of their experiences from those of other classes, and of the post World War I period, and demonstrates the ways in which mothers and their domestic choices were essential to the survival and cultural perpetuation of the working classes.

The feisty warm-hearted "mum" has long figured as a symbol of the working class in Britain, yet working-class history has emphasized male organizations such as clubs, unions, or political parties. Investigating a different dimension of social history, Love and Toil focuses on motherhood among the London poor in the late Victorian and Edwardian years, and on the cultures, communities, and ties with husbands and children that women created. Mothers' skills in managing the family budget, earning income, and caring for their children were critical in protecting households from the worst hardships of industrial capitalism, yet poverty or the threat of it molded intimate relationships and left its imprint on personalities. This book is also a case study demonstrating the larger argument that the concept of "motherhood" is more socially and historically constructed than biologically determined. Shaky household economics, pressure toward respectability, the close proximity of neighbors, the precariousness of infant and child life, and little chance of better lives for their children shaped the work and emotions of motherhood much more than did the biological experiences of pregnancy, birth, and lactation.
This beautifully written book, embellished with Cockney slang and music hall songs, addresses fascinating questions in the fields of women's studies, labor history, social policy, and family history.

"The feisty warm-hearted "mum" has long figured as a symbol of the working class in Britain, yet working-class history has emphasized male organizations such as clubs, unions, or political parties. Investigating a different dimension of social history, Love and Toil focuses on motherhood among the London poor in the late Victorian and Edwardian years, and on the cultures, communities, and ties with husbands and children that women created. Mothers' skills in managing the family budget, earning income, and caring for their children were critical in protecting households from the worst hardships of industrial capitalism, yet poverty or the threat of it molded intimate relationships and left its imprint on personalities. This book is also a case study demonstrating the larger argument that the concept of "motherhood" is more socially and historically constructed than biologically determined. Shaky household economics, pressure toward respectability, the close proximity of neighbors, the precariousness of infant and child life, and little chance of better lives for their children shaped the work and emotions of motherhood much more than did the biological experiences of pregnancy, birth, and lactation. This beautifully written book, embellished with Cockney slang and music hall songs, addresses fascinating questions in the fields of women's studies, labor history, social policy, and family history."--pub. description Frontmatter A NOTE ON ENGLISH AND AMERICAN CURRENCY AND USAGE (page xiv) ABBREVIATIONS (page xv) TABLES (page xvi) INTRODUCTION "The Other History": Motherhood (page 3) 1. "Miss, I Wish I Had Your Life": The Poor of London and Their Chroniclers (page 11) 2. "There Is Meat Ye Know Not Of": Feeding a Family (page 27) 3. "A Gamble You Have to Take": Marriage (page 56) 4. "What Is Fated Must Be": Having Babies (page 91) 5. "I'll Bring 'Em Up in My Way": Child Rearing (page 128) 6. "She Fought for Me like a Tigress": Sickness and Health (page 166) 7. "The Value of Babies": Transforming Motherhood, 1900-1918 (page 195) CONCLUSION: Rediscovering Motherhood (page 222) NOTES (page 225) SELECTED BIBLIOGRAPHY (page 291) INDEX (page 301) Introduction: The Other History: Motherhood -- 1. Miss, I Wish I Had Your Life: The Poor Of London And Their Chroniclers -- 2. There Is Meat Ye Know Not Of: Feeding A Family -- 3. A Gamble You Have To Take: Marriage -- 4. What Is Fated Must Be: Having Babies -- 5. I'll Bring 'em Up In My Way: Child Rearing -- 6. She Fought For Me Like A Tigress: Sickness And Health -- 7. The Value Of Babies: Transforming Motherhood, 1900-1918 -- Conclusion: Rediscovering Motherhood. Ellen Ross. Includes Bibliographical References (p. 291-299) And Index.