Goodbye to All That (Revised Edition) : Writers on Loving and Leaving New York

From Roxane Gay to Leslie Jamison, thirty brilliant writers share their timeless stories about the everlasting magic—and occasional misery—of living in the Big Apple, in a new edition of the classic anthology. In the revised edition of this classic collection, thirty writers share their own stories of loving and leaving New York, capturing the mesmerizing allure the city has always had for writers, poets, and wandering spirits. Their essays often begin as love stories do, with the passion of something newly discovered: the crush of subway crowds, the streets filled with manic energy, and the sudden, unblinking certainty that this is the only place on Earth where one can become exactly who she is meant to be. They also share the grief that comes like a gut-punch, when the grand metropolis loses its magic and the pressures of New York's frenetic life wear thin for even the most dedicated dwellers. As friends move away, rents soar, and love—still—remains just out of reach, each writer's goodbye is singular and universal, just like New York itself. Goodbye To All That Is A Collection Of Essays About Loving And Leaving The Magical City Of New York. Inspired By Joan Didion's Well-loved Essay By The Same Name, This Anthology Features The Experiences Of 28 Women For Whom The Magic Of The City Has Worn Off-whether Because Of Loneliness After Many Friends Marry, Have Kids, And Head To The Suburbs; Jadedness About Their Careers; Or Difficulty Finding True Love In A Place Where Everyone Is Always Looking To Trade Up To A Better Mate, A Better Job, A Better Apartment. With Contributions From Authors Such As Cheryl Strayed, Ann Hood, Dani Shapiro, And Emma Straub, This Collection Is Relatable To Anyone Who Arrived With Stars In Their Eyes, Hoping To Make It. Each Essay Reveals The Author's Own Unique Relationship With New York City, And Together They Encompass The Complicated Emotions All New Yorkers Have About Leaving-- Introduction -- You Are Here / Hope Edelman -- Strange Lands / Roxane Gay -- Home / Melissa Febos -- Transport / Emily Carter Roiphe -- Out Of Season / Ruth Curry -- Homecoming / Mira Ptacin -- Leaving My Groovy Lifestyle / Chloe Caldwell -- Misfits Fit Here / Marie Myung-ok Lee -- Manhattan, Always Out Of Reach / Ann Hood -- Think Of This As A Window / Maggie Estep -- Russia, With Love / Emily Gould -- My City / Dani Shapiro -- Someday, Some Morning, Sometime / Emma Straub -- View From The Penthouse / Valerie Eagle -- Losing New York / Lauren Elkin -- Currency / Elisa Albert -- A War Zone For Anyone Looking For Love / Liza Monroy -- Real Estate / Sari Botton -- Maybe I Loved You / Marcy Dermansky -- Long Trains Leaving / Emily St. John Mandel -- So Long, Suckers / Rebecca Wolff -- Crash And Burn / Eva Tenuto -- Heedless, Resilient, Gullible, And Stupid / Janet Steen -- The Lion, The Pig, And The Wolf And Other Thoughts About New York / Karen E. Bender -- The Loosening / Rayhane Sanders -- Captive / Dana Kinstler -- My Misspent Youth / Meghan Daum -- Minnesota Nice / Cheryl Strayed. Edited By Sari Botton. Winner of a Foreword IndieFab Book of the Year Award In 1967, Joan Didion wrote an essay called Goodbye to All That , a work of such candid and penetrating prose that it soon became the gold standard for personal essays. Like no other story before it, Didions tale of loving and leaving New York captured the mesmerizing allure Manhattan has always had for writers, poets, and wandering spirits. In this captivating collection, 28 writers take up Didions literary legacy by sharing their own New York stories. Their essays often begin as love stories do, with the passion of something newly discoveredthe crush of subway crowds, the streets filled with manic energy, and the certainty that this is the only place on Earth where one can become exactly who she is meant to be. They also share the grief that comes when the metropolis loses its magic and the pressures of New Yorks frenetic life wear thin on even the most fervent dwellers. As friends move away, rents soar, and lovestill remains just out of reach, each writers goodbye to New York is singular and universal, like New York itself. With Cheryl Strayed, Dani Shapiro, Emma Straub, Ann Hood, and more. From Roxane Gay to Leslie Jamison, 30 brilliant writers share their timeless stories about the everlasting magic — and occasional misery — of living in the Big Apple, in a new edition of the classic anthology n the revised edition of this classic collection, thirty writers share their own stories of loving and leaving New York, capturing the mesmerizing allure the city has always had for writers, poets, and wandering spirits. Their essays often begin as love stories do, with the passion of something newly discovered-the crush of subway crowds, the streets filled with manic energy, and the sudden, unblinking certainty that this is the only place on Earth where one can become exactly who she is meant to be. They also share the grief that comes like a gut-punch, when the grand metropolis loses its magic and the pressures of New York's frenetic life wear thin for even the most dedicated dwellers. As friends move away, rents soar, and love —... "Goodbye to All That is a collection of essays about loving and leaving the magical city of New York. Inspired by Joan Didion's well-loved essay by the same name, this anthology features the experiences of 28 women for whom the magic of the city has worn off--whether because of loneliness after many friends marry, have kids, and head to the suburbs; jadedness about their careers; or difficulty finding true love in a place where everyone is always looking to trade up to a better mate, a better job, a better apartment. With contributions from authors such as Cheryl Strayed, Ann Hood, Dani Shapiro, Hope Edelman, Meghan Daum, Emily Carter, Jami Attenberg, and Emma Straub, this collection is relatable to anyone who arrived with stars in their eyes, hoping to make it. Each essay reveals the author's own unique relationship with New York City, and together they encompass the complicated emotions all New Yorkers have about leaving" "In the revised edition of this classic collection, 31 writers share their own stories of loving and leaving New York, capturing the mesmerizing allure the city has always had for writers, poets, and wandering spirits. Their essays often begin as love stories do, with the passion of something newly discovered-the crush of subway crowds, the streets filled with manic energy, and the sudden, unblinking certainty that this is the only place on Earth where one can become exactly who she is meant to be. They also share the grief that comes like a gut-punch, when the grand metropolis loses its magic and the pressures of New York's frenetic life wear thin for even the most dedicated dwellers. As friends move away, rents soar, and love -- still -- remains just out of reach, each writer's goodbye is singular and universal, just like New York itself"-- Provided by publisher