Get the Guy : Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve

Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do. In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey—relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love—reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love. Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance. From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.

Love is hard. But it doesn't have to be.

Leading relationship expert and rising media personality Matthew Hussey provides what every woman needs to know to find lasting love. Offering invaluable insight into the male psyche, he will change the way you approach men and dating and give you the tools you need to find the man you deserve. Hussey answers every single woman's three most burning questions:

• Where do I go to meet good men?
• Why didn't he call?
• How do I get him to commit?

In Get the Guy, you will learn specific strategies for getting out there and meeting the best single guys. You will also learn why the guy you like has gone cold and the secrets to reigniting a spark with him. And you'll discover why so many guys seem to be afraid of long-term commitment and the three simple steps you can take that will change his mind.

Hussey also reveals why playing hard to get is a lose-lose game. A man doesn't want to endlessly chase a woman who is impossible to attain; he wants to win over a woman who is “high value." You'll find out how to create nonnegotiable standards for the way you want to be treated—and utilize a foolproof method for determining if a man can live up to them.

Leveraging what he learned from coaching thousands of men to find personal and professional success, Hussey will teach you how to meet more men, how to choose one who is worth your time, and finally, how to keep him enthralled forever. His insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth make the journey to love playful and fun, and his advice ensures success in both romance and life.

Find the guy. Put the odds in your favor ; Being a woman of high value ; Get a social life that serves your love life ; The mindset of the chooser ; The traits of desirable women ; The white handkerchief approach ; From great conversation to first date ; The joy of text ; A word about online dating Get the guy. The ultimate formula for attraction ; A word about insecurity ; The art of creating the great date ; The sex talk (part I) ; Stuck in the friend trap ; Why hasn't he called? ; Premature obligation Keep the guy. How to be the woman of his dreams ; Is he Mr. Right? ; What guys really think about the c-word ; The sex talk (part II) ; If you want him to commit ; Love for life. A leading relationship expert, corporate coach, and rising media personality-- the star of NBC's new prime time reality show "Ready for Love"--Offers women a guide book that reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating. A relationship expert and star of the reality show "Ready for Love" offers women a guidebook that reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven approach to finding lasting love